Money, Energy and Relationship.

28. September 2005

Here’s an idea.

Consider those people to whom you feel closest to and most comfortable with.
Why do you feel close to them relative to others, what is the difference?
Is there someone you know and admire that you’d like to get closer to but cannot?

Consider now how you feel about money.
Do you feel close and comfortable to your financial assets?
Do you enjoy the presence of money in your life?
Or is money just another hassle of life that you simply deal with?

What am I going on about?

Well, when I consider those near and dear to me there is an intimacy of exchange and contact. Friends I can confide my troubles with or who in turn are happy to share theirs with me. People I have shared a great many experiences with, old friends who have travelled through life with me. Family connections filled with a full mixture of love, joy and pain.

Why are you closer to some people than others? That is a huge subject but at its most simplest isn’t it that you are closest to those to whom you have the least negative judgments and also have the least negativity towards you? Perhaps most important of all is an absence of demand in the relationship from either party you are happy just to watch, enjoy and share with the other, you are at peace together. There is a free and open exchange of energy between you.

When you can create that kind relationship firstly with the disparate aspects of your ego self and then further expand that into all your relationships you will experience minor miracles of joyous creation. However you will also have set backs and challenges but these merely guide you deeper into the areas where you are holding yourself separate and in judgment against yourself, your desires and of course your wealth.

How? Be your own best friend.

Share your wisdom?

  1. Money, energy and relationship these are three words interrelated with each other in the sense that our money whether it is for disbursement or for acquisition is related to the exchange of energy and will also affect favorably or unfavorably our relationship. If we do have money whether it was acquired legally or illegally, it will definetly affect our relationships with our love ones, friends and the public at large. I said this because millionaires and billionaires use their money for philanthrophy which is parting their huge amount of money and energy but enhances their image and relationship towards their fellowmen. If money is acquired illegaly then one must exert a lot of enegy at the possibility of surrendering one’s independence because of incarcerations but definitely relationships will deteriorate because of hidden guilt on how the money was acquired. Relationships play a very important factor in determining the success or failure in the acquisition of money and energy. One nation gets stiffer economic sanctions or even be deprived of financial aids simply because they are not friendly with the benefactor/creditor nation. Prices are lot more cheaper in the market if the buyer is the friend or an ally of the seller. Cash Interest payments could be cancelled because the lender is the friend of the loan borrower etc. That is why financial analysts say that wealth is the use of less money with lesser energy but producing great amount of income or results which could be inferred to a passive income. While poverty is using huge amount of money and energy producing little results or no income at all. That is why in the modern world if one wants to have more money in business his relationships with his client must bear traces of integrity otherwise his business fails. Other business icons would say action after planning is the surest way to become rich. Hence, action requires the exertion of energy after which money will just flow freely. In the end money is a form of energy to enjoy it and share it with the less fortunate in life. As Lord Baden Powell once said: ” Leave this world a better place to live in.”
    — DR. ARTFREDO C. ABELLA    Aug 2, 05:18 AM

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